Showing posts with label Don. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Don. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

25 Years Ago And Still Today


August 21, 1988

We were practically babies.

He had just completed his Masters Degree
in electronic music and recording engineering.
 
I had just turned 21, three weeks
before the wedding,
and was working as a home furnishings 
specialist at Laura Ashley.
 
We were so completely crazy in love with each other.
 
Don's father and he had started to
build our little love nest,
or "Bunny Hutch" as we called it,
over the garage on their property.
 
Don's 25th birthday
was 4 days before our
wedding day.
 
I made my gown and beaded my shoes
and my mother and I made the bridesmaid's
and flower girl's dresses.
  
Don's mother and I sewed about a hundred
white covers for the folding chairs for the reception.
 
We were married at
Menlo Park Presbyterian Church,
on a perfect Sunday afternoon.
 
My father walked me down the aisle,
while Vivaldi's "Spring" was played
on flute and pipe organ,
and then he preached the wedding sermon.
 
During our ceremony,
my love accompanied me on guitar,
while I sang
"My Romance". 

Our wedding supper reception was held
in Don's aunt and uncle's back yard.

His Greek aunts made the delicious
food for the buffet,
all the while carrying on their hilarious "arguing."
(This is still one of my very dearest memories of the day.)
 
Our friends and family shared tears
and laughter
and joy.

Our marriage was prayed over 
and blessed.

And it was a good day.
 


Over the last 25 years,
we have lived a lot of life,
inhabited many houses in several states,
served the Lord and His people in numerous churches,
made A LOT of music,
given birth to our beloved India,
journeyed to China to adopt our beloved Ahnalin, 
prayed through many crises,
and seen many miracles,
packed around about a ton of fabric (!!)
and
dreamed many dreams.

We are still very, very much in love.

I have been blessed with the very best man.

My "Hot Rockin' Hubby" is still the man of my dreams.

God has blessed us so much.
 
Happy Anniversary my dear Don.

I can't wait to see what the next 25 years hold.



Saturday, February 9, 2013

Hey there Stranger!


Yes, it has been a long long time since I have checked in.

I know it has been a long time,
because I have been getting some very sweet
emails from concerned bloggy friends,
as well as some phone calls 
and even packages of coffee coming to my door.

So......what I have I been up to?

Well, quite a bit actually.

I will be putting up some posts 
with some of my creations from the
last several months very soon.

But first some newsy stuff.......

The top photo was taken 
by my Hot Rockin' Hubby at Disneyland
last month. 

Yes, we moved India back to the Disney College Program
and managed to get a few days in the parks.
Ahnalin was really sleepy in that picture,
but it was one of the few that shows me.


It was FREEZING in Anaheim when we were there!
 I mean, actually in the 30s! 
We were not prepared for cold weather to be sure.


We got to ride "Radiator Springs Racers" in Cars Land
and it is awesome!


We moved India in to her apartment with
her new Disney College Program roommates.
And we are so happy for them all.
They are a great group of girls!


Here is a rather charming bit of irony......

India's boyfriend Nate, 
who played "Gaston" in Santa Rosa's production
of "Beauty And The Beast"
is now in Florida at the Disney College Program
in Disney World. 

They met while being in the show together.
India played a "Silly Girl" 
And they both applied to the DCP before
they started dating. 


And even though thousands
and thousands of students applied for the program,
they were both chosen..........
to OPPOSITE SIDES OF THE COUNTRY!

Oh don't be silly!


Everyone was very sad the day we loaded the van....
AND I DO MEAN LOADED(!!)
to drive India to Anaheim. 

But we did move her in and 
she is now working at Disneyland again,
taking her college classes
both through her college and 
also the Disney classes. 

We miss her. 

But life is changing for us too.

Don has accepted a job to a new company
in the San Francisco Bay Area,
and we will be moving next month!

And I have been sewing and writing
and drafting patterns, 
as well as looking for places to move
and schools for Ahnalin
 and starting to pack, 
and lots of other things.

But I promise I am back to blogging.
Thank you for all the kind emails
and messages and prayers. 
I appreciated them all!

Happy Sewing!

Sivje
 

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

McCall's 6503- A Dress For Me


I made a dress for myself.

I don't do it often enough.

I make darling dresses for my daughters
and other little girls.

But I wear ratty jeans and tshirts most of the time.

There really is no good excuse for it.

I have plenty of fabric and loads of patterns.

I know how to alter and fit clothing.

I just don't like to sew for myself,
especially in the size I am now.

I always think I will wait until I lose weight.

But then I don't do it and still wear
the ratty jeans and tshirts.

And my wardrobe was getting to be ridiculous!

So...........

 I pulled out McCall's 6503
and chose view A.


I pulled out some gorgeous fabric that I have been
hoarding for just the perfect dress.

This is "Anthropology 2005" by Dan River.

Yes, I have had it awhile. 

I have most of the bolt left....

Actually, this was kind of my "muslin"
because I had never made this pattern before.

But it turned out so well!


I was nervous about the sizing,
so instead of just cutting out my regular dress size,
I cut the sizes according to the measurements.

Yeah.....no. 

It was HUGE!!!!

I should have just cut it a size 16,
which is my normal size.

So I fussed with it,
and cut it down,
and resewed it,
and tried it on
 over and over until it fit perfectly.

Next time I make this pattern,
and there WILL be a next time,
I will just cut the 16 from the beginning.


Please excuse the dorky look on my face.

Don was taking the photos and he was being goofy.

You know,
when I take photos of my girls in their outfits,
I fuss over the collars and sleeves so they lay correctly.

He didn't get that part of the deal......

But I LOVE this dress.

I love the collar and the surplice neckline
and the little ruffle.

However, I didn't love how "gapey" the front got 
when I bent over or slouched.

So, I added a super cute vintage button and buttonhole
right under the collar.


Don couldn't understand why I asked him to 
take a photo of the back.

But I reminded him that my blog was mostly read by 
sewists who would like to see how the back looked.

There is a side zipper in this dress 
so the back is very smooth and nice.

The ruffle is a little scrunched on the 
back of the neck because I had been wearing
my jean jacket that morning at church. 

I love this dress so much!

I will definitely make this pattern again,
maybe next time in a denim or linen.

I plan on wearing this,
 with my cowboy boots,
when the HRH takes me to the 
Brad Paisley concert on Thursday!

We bought the tickets in March,
and I am so glad we did!

Don (my Hot Rockin' Hubby) was laid off 
from his job last week,
so this concert is a huge treat coming 
at a hard time.

And I am so glad I made a new dress to wear 
with my hubby.

We would so appreciate prayer
as Don looks for a new job.

Thankfully, he still has his part-time church job.


 Happy Sewing!!!





 

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Twenty Three Years With The Hot Rockin' Hubby



Twenty three years ago today,

I married the love of my life.



 And I love him so very 

very

very

very much more now


thank I ever thought possible.





 Don, you are my very best friend.


You are exactly who I wanted

to share my life with.




Every day, 

no matter what happens,

I am glad that we belong to each other.




God must love me very much 

to have given you to me.




I love you,

my love.


Forever.


Love,
Sivje





Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Happy Birthday To My Hot Rockin' Hubby!


Happy Birthday to the most wonderful hubby
in the whole world!!!




You are the most gifted musician
I have ever heard.


You are the best Daddy
our girls could ever have.


And we are the most blessed
family in the whole world.

I love you so much my love.

Happy Birthday!

I can't wait to have you home 
with us tonight!!


Sunday, June 19, 2011

Happy Father's Day to the Best Fathers!


Ahnalin made this pillow for her Daddy 
for Father's Day.
She did it all herself,
except for the ironing, 
because I still won't let her do that.
She even did a pretty great job matching
the plaid on the seams!

Don's other Father's Day present
won't be here for a few days.
India sent a box of goodies 
that will be here Tuesday.

But his BIG PRESENT
is that India will be coming home for 
a few days next week!!!! 
WAHOOOOOO!!!!!


This is my Daddy and me from 
a photo taken when I visiting home
in January, 1988, 
just 7 months before Don and I got married.


This is Don's Dad and Mom with 
Ahnalin, who is in motion as usual!

I love all the wonderful Father's in my life
and am so very blessed to have them!
Happy Father's Day!

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Getaway with the Hot Rockin Hubby


My HRH took me away for a few days 
for our anniversary.

We said we were going to San Francisco for our little
getaway, but we forgot one key factor.

You see, even though we lived in the Bay Area for 
many years, we forgot that 
you can freeze to death in San Francisco in August!

That MAY be a SLIGHT exaggeration but only slightly.

I only packed a cute summer dress, and two pairs of capris
and a few short sleeved tops.

What was I thinking?????

The weather was like in the 50s in the city!

So, since we stayed in Burlingame near the SFO airport,
(we used Priceline so you never know exactly where you will end up.) and we both have such wonderful memories of our years living on the Peninsula, 
we decided to just mess around down there. 


So Friday night, we ate at our FAVORITE 
restaurant in Redwood City,

Harry's is not fancy, trendy or pricey.
It is just a fun place with excellent food.

We dream about Harry's roast meats and mashed potatoes and gravy.

YUM!


After dinner, we headed down the El Camino Real
to Palo Alto, where you will find the 
on University Ave.

The Stanford runs classic films
from the glory days of old Hollywood.


Before each film, the "Mighty Wurlitzer" organ rises
from the orchestra pit and the film goers are treated
to an organ concert made up of favorite movie songs.


When Don and I were married, one of the staff organists
at the Stanford Theatre played the organ at our wedding.

Don and I were thrilled to see "Easter Parade"
and "Holiday Inn" at the theatre on 
Friday night.

 Cost is $7.00 per person for a double feature
and you can even bring in your own candy and popcorn.
Though if you decide to buy concessions there, 
the prices are really, really reasonable,
like $1.50 for popcorn!

The whole evening was a huge treat!


Saturday morning, we had planned to go into
The City
which, if you live in Northern CA, always means San Francisco,
but that was when we discovered how cold it was to be.

But Don had been looking around on line for
fun things to do in the South Bay.
Don grew up in San Jose and then
as a teenager moved to Redwood City,
so he loves the South Bay and Peninsula areas.

But Don found this!

The San Jose Museum of Quilts and Textiles

What a good hubby!

And it was a bargain at $8.00 per person!

The current exhibit is called
ITAB: International Techstyle Art Biennial 

That sounds really technical, and it is,
BUT each item of art
was an incredible type of quilt or
tapestry or other creation
that combined traditional methods
with computer genius!

I wish I could have taken pictures but the
docents made me promise not to, because
each item was proprietary.

But, if you are near to San Jose,
go see this incredible exhibit!!


After the quilt museum, we decided to head over
to see the San Jose Giants play.

The San Jose Giants are a Triple A team that is a farm club
for the San Francisco Giants.


It happened to be "Italian Night" 
at the ball field, so everyone 
received free t-shirts with the
Giants logo in the colors of the Italian flag.

In between each inning, there was some contest
or game with giveaways.
Once contest was a free pizza for the fan that screamed the loudest.
The guy sitting next to me won that contest and shared
his free pizza with us!

We did not stay the whole game because we had parked a few blocks
away, which was an industrial neighborhood.
Free pizza man told us that there were often 
robberies in that area, and asked if we were afraid
of our car being broken into. 
Uh.......we had not thought of it until that moment!

So, we left after about 6 innings so we could get to our car before dark.

Sunday morning, 
we drove up to Sonoma county and wandered around.
We used to live there and love it so much!
But would you believe, that I forgot to get the camera out
of the car!!! 

We visited a local church and then went to Joann's Fabrics
because I had an 80% off coupon. 
I bought a bolt of red ticking stripe.
More on this later!

But after that, we took the long way driving home
because Ahnalin was missing me and
would not go to sleep without
"Mama". 

So, that was a little getaway. 
Simple, fun, inexpensive and perfect, because
I was with the most wonderful husband in the world.



Monday, August 17, 2009

Happy Birthday My Love





I know I already said this, but today is Don's birthday. I love that man so much! He is the very best husband in the whole world and a rockin' guitarist and songwriter to boot.
And if you see him, make sure you tell him how hot he looks in his boots!

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Mendocino With My Love

We just got home from the most beautiful and restful 3 days and nights at the Antioch Ranch in Mendocino. Since Don and I are going to be celebrating our 21st wedding anniversary on Friday, and Don's 40-something birthday tomorrow, we decided to go on a little weekend vacation, just the two of us. My parents called it our "Mendocino Love-in". Yep! It was that!

Thursday was crazy! I took India to the high school to get her senior year (YES!!!) schedule (which was wrong, 4th year in a row, but now fixed), then headed over to the fair for a few hours. I checked out my entries and counted ribbons, but more on this subject tomorrow. Then I came back home to do a bit more editing of the pattern, plus did some laundry, packed the cooler and then packed my suitcase. Oh..and I had to make a "Kissy Heart" for Ahnalin.

Anyone else make "kissy Hearts" for their children when they go away? All you do is cut a heart out of paper, put bright red lipstick on, and then put a BIG RED KISS on the heart cutout. Then make another heart cut out and put red lipstick on your little one and have them kiss their heart. You get to take the kissy heart your little one kissed with you and they get to keep the kissy heart you kissed. Then any time either of you need a kiss, you just kiss your kissy heart.

Don had a teacher meeting and then two guitar lessons to teach Thursday afternoon, but then we were finally able to load the van and head out.
We drove Highway 20 over to Fort Bragg and then down to Mendo, finally getting there about 11:30pm, unloaded, and passed out in the bed. Oh wait... knowing that I never fall asleep easily, no matter how exhausted I am, because my brain never, ever stops thinking, Don made me take a sleep aid. So..... I actually slept for 8 solid hours!!! NO WAY!!! Yep I did! So, in the morning, we made tea and toast and read for a while in our cottage that had NO TV AND NO INTERNET!!!! Yep! I was forced to rest the whole time! It was perfect in every way!

The Antioch Ranch has 5 cottages, each with 2 bedrooms, a bathroom, living room and full kitchen, so we could cook in. This was a blessing because it saved us a lot of money. Our cottage, the "Americana" was all decorated in a red, white, and blue theme, reminiscent of our first home. It was so sweet and cozy. We hope to go back next year and take the kids.....Did I just say that? But really, they would love it too.

After breakfast, we drove up to Fort Bragg and bummed around the old town area a bit until we found a fabric store. I went inside, and spent some of my fair prize money (more on this tomorrow) on fabric. I found a lovely burnt orange cotton dotted swiss with embroidered eyelet on either edge. This gorgeous stuff is more than 60" wide! I also bought some Michael Miller print and some older Alexander Henry Japanese fabric.

When I came outside, I was treated to this sight! Cute hubby pulled out one of the folding chairs from the van and settled in for the long haul. He knows me well and came prepared. That is true love for sure.

Then we drove down Elm Street to Glass Beach. Glass Beach is this cool place that used to be the Mendocino County dump. After several years, when they realized the harm being done to the beach and animals, they closed the dump. But all the years of the tides going in and out had an amazing effect on the beach. Instead of just sand, the beach is covered in tiny bits of all colors of sea glass. I tried to get a good picture but you just have to believe me. The beach truly sparkles in the sun like glass.

After the beach, on a tip from our innkeepers Pat and Jerry Westfall, we headed to d'Aurelias Pizza for an early dinner. I was over the moon for my eggplant parmigiana and Don swooned all the way through his lasagna. Delish!

After dinner, we drove over to the movie theater and saw "Julie and Julia". We loved this movie! It was one of those rare stories, well actually two stories, that championed committed marriage. In each couple, the husband truly loved his wife and encouraged her to pursue her dreams. And while each character was flawed and very human, they exhibited such tender attention to the other that we hoped we saw ourselves in them. Go see this movie. You will enjoy it.

After the movie, we drove back to our cottage and tucked ourselves into bed to read for a while. And yes, I slept again! Another eight hours of uninterrupted sleep! Oh Man! I could get used to this. Of course, I must interject that the sleep may be owed to the fact that I was not on the computer..... oh right.

Saturday morning, we drove into Mendocino where we dined on Eggs Benedict at the Bayview Cafe. YUM! Our table on the deck had the most gorgeous view of the Headlands. This little birdie thought we were commenting on his beauty instead of the ocean.

As we descended the stairs from the cafe, we were greeted with this little, er, BIG GOOSE honking "Good Morning" to us. I love geese. There were 5 big geese enjoying a breakfast of cooking scraps from the restaurant. I did not get very close though, as geese bite really hard!
We traipsed in and out of galleries, bookstores, candy shops, and boutiques before hitting upon the Mendocino Chocolate Company.

I chose this little beauty, though it was consumed mere seconds after this picture was taken. This chocolate and orange concoction is the "Angela" truffle, named after Angela Landsbury, who spent a great deal of time in Mendocino while filming the series "Murder She Wrote". That truffle was so yummy!

There were blackberry and raspberry bushes everywhere, just growing wild.

We walked around town, looking at houses and dreaming of what it would be like to live there. Someday.....oh please....I want to live near the ocean. The air is so fresh and clean and you don't feel crowded as much as you do inland. OH....please!!

My favorite scent is fresh lavender. And like the berries, it grew all over the area and smelled soft and lovely.

From the sublime, to the ridiculous. We drove back up to Fort Bragg and visited the Tattoo museum. While posing behind this stand, I heard my name. A friend from Grass Valley was just 3 feet away giggling at me! Hi Kimala!

I look good, right?


This is a rotten picture, but it kind of shows the fabrics I found. The pink/white swirls and the dark rose art print came from Fabric Indulgence I wish I had gotten a better picture of the art print.

We dinked around in several used bookstores and bought a few books to take back to the cottage for another session of quiet, restful reading. But before driving back to the cottage, we drove down to the harbor to Captain Flints for chowder and shrimp stuffed artichokes. If you remember the old Goldie Hawn movie "Overboard" , this was the kitchy restaurant in a few of the scenes. The food was good and pretty reasonable as well.
And then it was back to the cottage to dive into our "new" books. And dum da dum dum! Another night of restful sleep!!! That made for 3 nights in a row with over 8 hours of sleep each night! Holy Cow!
This morning, as one of the very rare Sunday mornings when we are not at church bright and early for rehearsal, Don and I both slept in. We had a leisurely time of prayer and worship, discussing the Bible together over tea and toast, and, um....Pop Tarts. Then we packed the van and cleaned up the cottage before heading home via Highway 101.

Reading this, one just might think I had learned my lesson that I need to go to bed at a decent time (as in, before 2:00AM) if I want to actually get good rest. Well, it is only 12:42 AM now, so I have a good chance of getting a few hours if I go to bed soon.
Ok, almost done.

Any little getaway must either start or finish with a meal at the world famous In-N-Out Burger and oh yum! When we lived all over the country, before we moved back home to California, I missed In-N-Out so much! The burgers are the best!

Yes, I am one rested, happy girl!

Don and I are so grateful to our parents for blessing us with the money for this getaway, and to the Westfalls for blessing us at the Antioch Ranch. Thank you so much!

So, what did I, we, learn from this trip?
Well, we learned that we need to get good sleep more than just occasionally if we want to feel good.
We learned that we REALLY want to live near the ocean, even though we already pretty much knew it.
We learned how much fun the Antioch Ranch was, even without TV or internet access.


And most of all, we learned that we are still wild-eyed-crazy about each other after almost 21 years of marriage. We are so grateful to God for giving us each other.